It's really hard for me to tell someone that they have shit personality traits or that they engage in shit actions. It's not that I want to and can''t do it; it's just that I don't give a shit.
Growth and progression is important in a person in terms of many things, including personality. Some people are still developing, some are developed. Some that are developing have a path they want to walk towards, and some are lost. Some that are developed feel as though they are well off, and some feel as though they cannot grow any further or give up.
I'm pretty much for someone who wants to continue to get better as much as possible. Flaws are pointed out by either ourselves or others through either criticism or experience. Some act on them positively or negatively.
So just know that sometimes when you do complain, it may have to do with either your lack of development or your lack of motivation to develop.
We all have the ability to be the best "me" that we could ever be in our own rights. Our best "me" will not always be universally accepted, but, for the most part, should not be selfish in that our best "me" benefits "me" and "me" only. It shouldn't be selfless either, in that we want everyone to like us. What's the point of being a person everyone likes if you truly don't like yourself? What's the point of liking yourself, yet most people are in agreement that you are a shitty person?
Yeah, who cares what people say. But when there is a consensus, it does matter.
Anyways, this is why I'm always happy about shit, usually random shit, or ignore negative shit. Why let it break you? The path to growing as a person should never be disturbed. So fuck it, be happy, grow up even when you technically you have grown up, and be the best "me" you can be :)...Kind of like combining your ought, ideal, and actual self into one product that is continually worked on :D
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