And I treat them like this because..

*readies for an extremely long blog post*

This will be edited immensely since this is a HUGE part of my persona..

but let me start off with this..

and then this..

Why do I love women?? Why do I respect them??

It just happened really..through both these two great albums of course.

I really started having control of my mind around 2006. I'd like to consider my previous years to be "years of unconsciousness". Technically I was conscious and breathing, but outside influences were such a huge part in my thinking process that I didn't feel in control (why I conformed, wanted to be cool, etc.).

Point is, R&B is amazing. The right type that is. And I felt so influenced, not only by the words of each song, but the mood, the mindset, and the fantasy each elicited. (by fantasy I mean how I would want to see my world and what I consider to be perfect).

I was taught by two teachers, Joe and Ne-Yo. Sometimes they would bring in some surprise guests, but for the most part, they were my main instructors. Mind you, I was taking more than one class.

So for me, the mindset of the "perfect guy" is instilled in me. I can't do no harm to a woman, physically or verbally, I just can't. I think I'm mentally incapable of doing so..

Then, Ne-Yo came out with "The Year of the Gentleman". My favorite Ne-Yo album to date and one of my all time favorites..

Why not make being the "perfect gentleman" seem like the cool thing to do?? Sadly, this still hasn't caught on. One of the few things I would love to become a trend. I respect men who hold this type of mentality in their head, because for me, I would love for all women in the world to be treated like royalty. They are the direct representation of what life is.

Then there are the, let's say, "fake" gentleman. The sweet-talkers. Whatever you want to call them. How to distinguish them easily?? Well in my opinion..

Gentlemen respect all people. Men and women.
Why treat anybody like shit?? Because they did you some kind of harm??..Haven't you heard the saying "Treat others as you wish to be treated" or the simple notion of NOT stooping down to someone's level and hold your ground??..I'm done here..(I guess there are SOME exceptions. I mean there are, but their reasoning is hidden)

When one doesn't get their way, why insult them?? I've seen/heard so many cases where a proposed "gentleman" treats a woman correctly throughout their relationship, but the minute she breaks up with him, he starts insulting her, calling her a "bitch", "cunt", etc. And then the woman can utter the phrase "Now your true colors show..". For me, of course I get sad, and of course I get angry. But I never blame her. I blame myself. I guess this is a form of projection. Project my anger for the relationships collapse onto myself. But as I was saying, insulting in general is ridiculous.

The perfect song..

And then I just think...this is how I feel, I mean...is it??

I REALLY don't like to force myself to be a certain type of person (another difference between real gentlemen and "fake" ones). Again, it just happens..It's such a natural feeling to me..*plays Nature Feels by Frank Ocean*..ummmm..*thinks of another blog post*.

Anyways, for example, I don't speak properly just to seem presentable. It just happens really..
    So for me, I don't force my "beautiful"s, I don't force my compliments, and I don't force my good gestures. My mind just ended up adapting to this feeling, this mindset, or even strongly, this lifestyle. Yes, it truly is a lifestyle.

It's the Year of the Gentleman. Every year for the rest of my life. Every day of each of those years..

Beautiful women. Beautiful hearts. Beautiful feelings. Life, she's beautiful. Life = each woman involved in it..

(again, editing will happen on here from time to time)..